I used to think time was something that moved forward.
Something I could use well, or waste.
Something I needed to manage better.
There was always a quiet pressure around it —
to be efficient with it,
to not fall behind it,
to make something of it.
But over time, I began to notice something else.
Not about time itself —
but about how I was living inside it.
Most of my days were not shaped by what was happening.
They were shaped by what had already happened…
or what I thought might happen next.
A conversation from yesterday replaying itself.
A moment from years ago appearing without invitation.
A future scenario quietly rehearsed, again and again,
as if preparing for something that may never arrive.
The mind seemed to move in two directions.
Backward…
into memory.
Forward…
into anticipation.
Very rarely here.
And in that constant movement,
there was a strange feeling that began to emerge.
Not of moving through time,
but of being held in place by it.
It felt less like a straight line,
and more like a pendulum.
But not side to side.
Back and forth.
Past…
future…
past…
future…
Each swing carrying something unfinished.
Each return reinforcing something already known.
There was activity.
There was movement.
But there was very little stillness.
And almost no sense of being where I actually was.
What I began to see — slowly, not all at once —
was that time, as I experienced it,
was not just a sequence of moments.
It was memory,
reappearing.
It was anticipation,
reforming.
And somewhere in between those two,
there was a quiet absence.
Not of time.
But of presence.
Nothing outside was holding me.
There were no walls.
No constraints.
But there was still a subtle sense of being enclosed.
As if the mind had built a structure out of what had been,
and what might be.
And was living inside that.
I didn’t fully understand this when I first wrote that line.
Perhaps I was still moving within that pendulum then.
I’m beginning to see it more clearly now.
Not as an idea.
But as something that shows up
in small, ordinary moments.
When the mind returns
to something that is no longer here.
Or moves toward something
that has not yet arrived.
And in noticing that,
something else becomes possible.
Not a solution.
Not an escape.
Just a pause.
A brief moment
where time loosens its hold.
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Most Prisons Are Not Made of Walls
Sudhi, this reflection quietly unsettles the reader in the best possible way. The line “most prisons are not made of walls” immediately shifts the idea of confinement from something physical to something deeply psychological. It makes us realise that limitation often comes not from circumstance, but from time, memory, conditioning, and unconscious habits.
What stands out in this piece is its meditative pace. Rather than preaching solutions, the writing invites observation — almost like sitting beside one’s own thoughts and watching them unfold. The exploration of time as both a creator and a captor feels especially powerful. We see how the mind builds identities from past experiences and future anxieties, unknowingly locking itself inside invisible cages.
Your reflection doesn’t try to motivate or comfort artificially; instead, it encourages awareness. And that awareness itself becomes liberation. The essay gently suggests that freedom is less about escaping life and more about seeing clearly how we relate to it.
This piece feels less like an article and more like a pause — a moment where the reader confronts the silent prisons they carry within.
A deeply contemplative and grounding read.